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As we enter 2013 the Aquarian age it will become much easier to tune into and work on whatever is holding us back from achieving our desires.   It is the perfect time to go beyond ‘your new year’s resolutions’ and instead identify ‘conclusions’ that have impacted on who you are presently.  ‘Conclusions’ allows you to take off the blindfolds you have been wearing.

For instance if you have been struggling finding employment and your resolution for 2013 is to ‘get a job’ then take it one positive step further and identify what ‘conclusions’ you have about your ability to get a job…such as – ‘too many people going for the same job, I don’t have the confidence, I just don’t have what it takes, my family – if only they would support me or leave me alone, and so on’.

By taking off the blindfolds or seeing these conclusions… you can start to see the paths that were once hidden from you.   For instance…If you don’t think you have what it takes to get a job, then change your resolution from ‘getting a job’ to the newly revealed path of ‘being bold and courageous’.   So when your applying for a job you don’t need to focus on ‘getting the job’ but just focus on being your courageous self.  Ask yourself ‘am I feeling courageous, Am I acting with bold intent?’   What is really significant about setting these new pathways from the conclusions you have had is a sense of your own inner power and not relying on outside circumstances.  You are your source of income not the job…so to speak.

If your resolution is to ‘make friends’ then take off the blindfolds and see the new path…perhaps the pathway is to ‘be a friend’ in order to achieve your desire.  Again this enables you to work from within rather than relying on others outside of you.

If your resolution is to ‘be confident’ then identify the ‘conclusions’ you have about being confident and take off the blindfolds.   Maybe the pathway to confidence requires you to do something once a week to make you feel good about you.  For instance treating yourself to a coffee with a friend where you get to vent once a week or spoiling yourself in some way.   So instead of stating your new year’s resolution is to be confident – make it that your pathway is to spoil yourself once a week by doing….(fill in the blank).

After viewing what my conclusions are for this year I have found that I don’t want to fail in various aspects and in various ways.    This would mean not trying and choosing to give up.  But I don’t want to give up.  All of 2012 I spent 3-4 hours a week listening to guest speakers on Darius’s show.    I wouldn’t have learnt how to start a website without it – it was the quantum jumping that gave me the inspiration to start theBIGjournal.  I was lucky to be given access to the quantum jumping and Christie Marie’s program when they were doing the $1 try deal.  I wouldn’t have learnt to truly set some goals for myself – although slowly – little steps such as making the decision that I wanted to become intuitive and perhaps go in that direction career-wise.  (Every guru on the show has basically said that the accession would enable people to become more intuitive).  I decided I’d find out for myself.   It’s true…I have become more intuitive to the point I have done some paid readings for people in various countries.    How did I become more intuitive…by listening to the show and receiving the meditations and activation’s that were offered for free.    The meditations usually dealt with getting closer to your higher self etc.   It helped you become more intuitive if that is your intention, or helped bring peace, or life purpose and so on.

So why am I feeling both anxious and excited?  Around December things have been happening that I couldn’t quite believe but yet could.  The closer you are on the right track I guess things such as gifts start coming in.    Firstly I realized I needed a mentor regarding honing in my intuitive abilities and couldn’t get it out of my mind that it should be an already successful psychic.  I haven’t had any psychic training only what have learnt on Darius show.   (I’m telling you – anyone can become very intuitive).   I checked out sites and boy the training is expensive.  Then I stumbled across a website offering free scholarships and yaa now I have a mentor.

I’ve also thought about getting a life coach.  This is something I would never ever have thought about before.  I just knew I needed a mentor.  I am now working with a business, life and entrepreneur coach.    I feel truly on track but anxious too….am I really on track or just kidding myself (fears) . I’m totally realistic – I know no one can do anything for me so I expect the year is going to have challenges.  I know as a coach/mentor he will be on my back and holding me accountable.  So I’m excited yet scared.  I’m not sure what I am afraid of except perhaps that it’s ‘change’.    It’s ….will it really change my life?

So I thought about the conclusions I have and saw my pathway ahead.  It is to live courageously and take courageous steps.    This is my goal.  When I’m feeling scared and anxious about these changes going on (good changes) I stop for a moment, get a paper or visualize paths before me.  One path has a road sign ‘fear’.  Another path has sign ‘anxious’.  Another sign has ‘be courageous’.     I don’t want to go down the path of fear or anxious.  I’ll take the ‘courageous’ path – in hindsight – it is a lot easier.

I hope you have found this post helpful.   If you have made resolutions or if you thought to yourself ….’Well let’s hope 2013 will be better than 2012’ etc…that is a resolution too.  I urge you to find the conclusions and choose a more positive pathway….the pathway that requires you to work from within rather than from outside of you.   Just thinking about ‘courageous’ gets me excited and totally changes my energy.  

I’d love you to share your new pathway.  Hey I will do a reading for you for free…just send an email via contact form with a specific question and either a photo of yourself…or if not comfortable with that then a brief discription of you…such as hair and eye colour and build. That’s it.