Well I was curious to see what were the main topics members on the site wanted to read about so I did a quick poll (just a basic Talley) and the findings really had me quite surprised, mainly about how far apart the top ‘interest’ and the lowest ‘interest’ were on the polls and HOW the top cannot function without the lowest. You will have to look at the poll to see for yourself.
The number 1 interest was Law of Attraction.
2 – Ask and receive and Healing.
4 -Intuition, EFT -emotional freedom technique/tapping and Manifestation.
5 – Quantum Jumping and Heart Meditation.
6 – Prayer.
I was astounded at how the Law of Attraction (LOA) was number 1 but Beliefs was right at the bottom because the Law of Attraction can not be effective until you have a complete understanding of your belief system and how what you believe impacts on how your life plays out. I’d say number 6 – Prayer (regardless of whether you are religious or not) is quite similar to Beliefs…it is all about faith really and trusting in a higher power, trusting that their really is a universe that wants to give you exactly what you ask for, knowing you are not alone in the world and are part of a bigger picture, getting into a habit of asking because you trust you are being heard – yet it is also near the bottom of the poll.
Of course the poll is bias’. It is only a collective view because a member could have chosen Law of Attraction and beliefs as their interest. But seeing it in the order above has made me think deeply about what I should write about next. I was actually planning to write about ‘intuition’ before doing the poll. If you can’t work out what your gut is trying to show or tell you…If you can’t or don’t know how to get in contact with your ‘higher self’ that will only have your highest interests at heart – then I think everything else becomes a difficult task or journey. I mean every choice you have made up to now…has led to opportunities or strife depending on whether you payed attention to your instincts.
I totally get though how ‘beliefs/prayer’ is at the bottom of the poll since it is much easier to want to use the LOA and a hell of lot harder to work on your belief system. The belief I’m referring to is about ‘worthiness’. It’s not about whether you believe in the Law of Attraction, whether you believe that if you ask for this and that it will come to you somehow. It is much deeper than that. It’s how much do you believe in your worth. How much do you love yourself? Are you lovable? Just take a look around you and see what has manifested for you. Are you in a loving relationship, do you have wonderful friendships, do others treat you with love and respect?
The Law of attraction is already working for you, and works for you continuously whether you believe it or not. What you have attracted into your life comes from ‘worthiness’ beliefs. Love, relationships, money and career it all comes back to your beliefs. Your belief is actually an energy or turns into energy…you can have lightness type energy around you or dense type energy where things are negative, your tired all the time and so on. I guess beliefs also comes down to intuition…how willing are you to pay attention to your higher self when it tells you to go down a certain path. What if…by paying attention it led you to happiness, the right career, a new love, and so on. Sometimes what your intuition guides you to do can totally go against your beliefs. But if you just tried it…listening to your higher self….could your world open up to more opportunities for you?
It may seem that working on your ‘intuition’ is a short cut when you should work on dealing with your ’beliefs’. I think it is a short cut. It’s like, how can you become a more positive type person?…well you could do some counselling, do some past healing work on you etc…they are all important things that you should deft do yet if you just started hanging out with 1 positive person (short -cut), half the healing has already taken place. I mean when you think about it….would you rather spend the next month with a counselor or hanging out with people even if just one person who is just a bundle of laughs. I can already see which of the two will lighten one’s energy right away. It goes back to that old saying ‘act as if’.
So when it comes to ‘beliefs’. I think the main issue is having an ‘awareness’ of what your beliefs really are. When you discover your true ‘beliefs’…(one way is by looking at the various aspects of your life..love, money – what’s there and what’s missing etc) half the job is done. Just ‘getting it’ your beliefs makes you understand your behavior, choices and decisions etc and thus you DO start to make changes. Like Panache says…there is nothing wrong with you, you don’t need fixing, just accept! But you have to ‘get’ what it is you are accepting. You need to discover your ‘core beliefs’ at this time in your life, then you can go ‘a- ha, wow really, I hadn’t realized . Then you can start on acceptance and then take steps in whatever direction you want to go.
So I am going to get on to writing about the Law of attraction as it is at the top of the poll and I’m going to write about beliefs and intuition too. I spent a month purposely using my intuition with surprising results and will share with you what came about as soon as I finish writing it.
Everyone is always manifesting…the law of attraction brings to you and your life what ever you put out in the world…emotionally, mentally and physically. What you put out in the world comes back to what you truly believe in. For instance…if you’ve been working on manifesting a million bucks and it hasn’t arrived it’s because you don’t believe in what you are asking for. Maybe because you actually believe you are not worth a million bucks, maybe its because you don’t actually believe that a million bucks will make you happy for a variety of reasons….such as you would have to share it with your family, people would just hang out with you so they can use you, you may just lose it all on stupid decisions. So ‘belief’ can be a tricky thing to understand because you may be totally unaware of them.